Dear Divorcée, Dealing with Self Doubt

Dear Divorcée,
I have self-doubt. I have insecurity. I have fear of failure. I have nights when I show up at the arena and I’m like, ‘My back hurts, my feet hurt, my knees hurt. I don’t have it. I just want to chill.’ We all have self-doubt. You don’t deny it, but you also don’t capitulate to it. You embrace it. -Kobe Bryant
How many times have you had a day like Kobe stated in the above quote? Maybe you just didn’t want to get up, or you were afraid of something that you had to do. It happens to us all especially when going through a divorce. Self doubts and fears are normal, but it’s what we do with those thoughts that makes the difference in our lives.

✨..casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ..-2Corinthians 10:5✨
Contrary to popular belief, we can choose what we decide to think or meditate on. Going through a divorce can bring about many negative thoughts. When negative thoughts come, we must quickly replace them with something positive. When fear approaches, we mustn’t allow it to thwart our growth or progress. We must step out and do the thing that fears us anyway.
Pay close attention to your thoughts on a daily basis. Stay encouraged and do great things!
Keep Moving Forward,

Andrea M. Stuckey

Live Life Luvd Coaching


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