Dear Divorcée,  Don’t Focus On Past Mistakes

If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down. -Mary Pickford

Dear Divorcée,

Know that any mistakes or failures that you may have made, are in the past and will stay in the past. Regardless of whether you’ve been through a divorce, regardless of whether you’ve had many losses in your life, regardless of whether you’re at a major cross road in your life right now, the past does not dictate your future. 
You have the ability to move beyond your past hurts, and you have the ability to move beyond your past failures. There is always another chance or opportunity for you to live better, love better, and allow joy into your life.
The first step is to forgive yourself. Don’t be your own roadblock to a happy and successful future. Forgive yourself and allow yourself to learn from the life lessons and move forward. Secondly, take time to gain clarity about what you REALLY want in your life. Think about that. What would you change? What would you absolutely love to have present in your life? What would you love to be doing on a regular basis?

Write the answers to those questions in a notebook or journal so that you can frequently view your desires and keep them before you. 
*Whatever you focus on will manifest.*
~Andrea M. Stuckey
Coach|Speaker |Author

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